" My dear beloved sisters "

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My dear beloved sisters.
Allah gifts a lot of special blessings
Allah trusts you to carry rahim [womb]
That makes your nature different
Makes you full of affection,
Your touch is tenderness,
You smile is sweetness..
You are an amazing beautiful creation
You are a charming creation
Your graceful movement
Your killing smiles
You are beautiful
Always beautiful
You are sweet
Always sweet
You are unique
With your own way
You are always special
You are attractive no matter how you look like
But
You are a real temptation for your fellow
brothers.
You will be
You will always be .
Like it or dislike it
Even if you never intend to
Even if you never plan to
They will fall on your laps

My dear sisters.
I know some of you are very strict [in real]
I know you are trying always to be a real muslimah
Who love Quran wa sunnah
But easy to get carry out [on net]
My dear sincere sisters.
Please think over this
Would you mix and talk that free with all those
guys in person?
Would you crack those "Islamic jokes" with those
guys in person?
Remember of those
*LOLs*.*awwwww*wwoooowww.
Would you do really express that way if you met
those guys in person?
Would you feel comfortable spending so much
time with these guys in person?
Are you comfortable.?
Extremely comfortable..?
VERY comfortable.?

My dear sisters..
Will a good brother waste their time just for talk?
Will a good brother share you every single thing?
Do you like if your husband shares their secret
with another woman?
Do you like if your husband shares their joke with
another woman?

My dear sisters
Dont flower your mind to think you are the only
woman he talks with
You probably one in hundreds.
Dont feel as someone special
You the one who make yourself special
Dont nurture those feelings
They may sweet but for nothing.
They act same with hundreds of his female
buddies
Perhaps
They just try to be polite
They just try to be nice
They just try to be gentle.
They just try to help
They just try to care your feelings
They just do not want to hurt you
They just try to convey messages
Perhaps
They wish you could understand yourself
They wish you could away without they say
things
They wish soon you would know your limit
They wish you soon gain your consciousness
They wish you know when you should stop
yourself

My Dear sisters
They may say they NEVER talk with woman [AT
ALL]
You surprise
You do feel so special
You feel be the Only ONE
You feel so lucky on earth
Please .Be smart!!!
Is he from Mars?
Is he living outer space is he an alien ?
Is living in the middle of no where?
Didnt he ever go outside?
Ok perhaps He does Never..
But
Perhaps He is not sociable person
Perhaps He is an awkward person
Perhaps He has problem in interpersonal skill
Perhaps He indifferent with his fellow sisters
Perhaps He not a sensitive person
Perhaps He perhaps type of man who will run
away even if saw his fellow sister being abuse
Perhaps He perhaps type of man who will avoid
passing his fellow sisters who need help
Or
He is a big big liar!!!
Be rational
Dont make your feelings overwhelm you
Dont make your feelings dominate your rationality,

Oh My dear sisters..
I dont mean to destroy you romantic dream about
him
I dont mean to tarnish your sweet perception
about him..
I might be wrong
Perhaps he is indeed not one what I have been
listed above,
But you have to know
The probability could be 1 in billions
My dear sweet sisters,
Please open your heart
Please open your eyes
Those rarest pearls really rare breed.
They will not appear in every places
If they have good intention over you
If they are really a real mumin
They will know the rules
They will know the way
They will be a responsible person
They will not abuse their faith by justification their action
They will not play with a sacred sunnah
Just to take chance to talk with you in person

My dear sisters
A real pearl doesnt need light to make it shining
A sun doesnt need heater to make it warm
Oceans do not need salt to make it salty
They are shining themselves
The light the salt already be part of them
They will keep shining even if buried in the deepest
oncean
They are precious without advertisement,
That also.. a real mumin
A waratawadhu mumin
Will not use their quality just for the sake to make
you fall on his laps
They perhaps did same way to crush other heart

My Dear sisters
There are many who love to talk
But they do not really understand what they talk
There are many who will offer you proposal
But they actually do not understand what it is
They do not have idea how sacred it is
Go challenge them with real actions
Go challenge them to be real gentlemen
You will know for real
Do they say they never have girl friends
It doesnt mean they know the religion
That could be they do not have chance due the
culture restriction.

My Dear sisters.
You may say you are confidence
You may say you know the limit
You may say you will always try to be stern
You may say you are a strong person
You may say you will lead the flow
But my dear
For how long?

My Dear sisters
Its not only about you
But you deal with other heart
With other mind
Their heart, their mind . out of your control
You perhaps could confidence about your strength
But you never able to control their strength
You never able to set what they should feel about
you
You cant stop them to in love with you
You cant tell them please do not think about you
You cant ask them please stop adore you

My dear sisters
You never know what inside their brain
If only they could accept your smile just same as
those bold yellow icon
My Dear sisters.
Please help those fellow brothers.
You not only responsible to care your own soul
But also please do not put yourself as a
temptation
You should not make yourself become a disease
in ones heart
You couldnt say you never intend to
You couldnt say that not your fault
Please be honest

My Dear sisters.
The number of man who get crush on you ..
It not always reflects how good you are
That not something nice to boast proudly
It perhaps shows. something wrong in you
That could be a sign of your near failure
That could be a real destruction

My Dear sisters
You heart by nature so soft..

My Dear sisters.
See.those massive hard stones.
If it was fallen by just a drop water continuously
It would leave a big hole
Lets alone your tender heartit would be a huge
hole.
You never know when your iman down
You never know when you are weak
But syaitan will be there patiently waiting your
failure
A small sin will create a black spot in your white
heart
Finally it will turn become black
It will make your heart death
You will never able to find the way back.
Prevention always better than curing
Better to away from trap in complication
You may say that you only talk with good ones
Remember good brother will be temptation for good
sister
You will be temptation for good brother
My dear sisters.
At times you start any relationship
Please take a thought
Where things would lead you
A real Moslem will never do something without a
clear intention
Allah will count your intention.
A real Moslem should know what will be the
destination
Will you be his chat email friend forever.?
Share things forever?
Tell every single thing forever?
He knows what you do from 4 am to 4 pm?
He knows what you do from Sunday to
Sunday ?

My dear sisters
The more you involve
The more your close
The more you will not able to leave
The more you will not able to stop
You heart so soft..
You are so nice
You will think thousand things
You afraid to offend him
You afraid make him cry
You afraid destroy his life
You afraid he commits suicide
You afraid he will go astray
You think he will not able live without you
The syaithan will be happy
They will clap their hands
If their legs could clap They would clap too
New victims come to the circle
You flower your minds
With all those sentimental feelings
You will suffer and suffer not able run from the
circle
Dear Trust me. They will not do that
If they do.. that irrefutable prove. how stupid
he is
Do you want to end up you life with a stupid one?

My Dear sisters
The constant interaction
Will lead you in confusion
not able to compare between pity, sympathy
and love

My Dear young sisters
Sometimes you just try to be polite
You try to care a good manner
But response not always what you hope
You are in global villages
You should learn the global languages
You should understand the global gesture
You should able to deal with so many heads
If you have tried your best
If you have done your duty
You should find the way for safe your faith
You do not have any responsibility anymore
You have done what you should do
You are not cruel
The otherwise you save his soul sooner

My Dear sisters.
Remember Allah watch over you
Allah know even the deepest of you heart
You know the best who are you
You know the best what your doing
You know the best your capacity
You do really discuss your deen?
You do sincerely to invite people to your deen ?
But
Why you busy keep on till the late of night
Where is time for talk with your Lord
How you lost your precious private time with Lord
If you sleep 3 am 2 am 4 am where you would
sleep
How you lost the precious the last 1/3rd night
When Allah comes closer to you
When you build inside strong spiritually

My Dear sisters
Do you know What Google, AltaVista, yahoo, for?
Do you know thousands Islamic website available?
Do you know thousands Islamic Scholar available?
Please, you do use them maximally
Before jump talking to any man, even if in the
pretext of learning
You do have a bunch of females buddies
Please, go to them to share and study
You do not worry if you act like a stupid
You may express yourself freely
You can be a sweet as you like

My Dear sisters
May Allah make you be great wife like Khadijah
bin khwalid ra
May Allah help you to be a great mother like
Fatimah binti Muhammad
May Allah make you be great scholar like Aisyah binti
Abu Bakar ra
May Allah make you practice a great patience like
Ashiah ra
May Allah help you to observe ghirah
and take care your husband heart like Asma binti Abu
Bakar
May Allah help you to as smart as Queen Balqis as wise
as Ummu Sulaim
InshaAllah you are as beautiful as Attikah who
companied all her husband as a syuhada

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